What is the thing you most wish you were great at?
Moving on with things once they are done and finished. A few examples: Having a tough time accepting that a book series has ended (The Divergent Series, The Hunger Games Trilogy, Vampire Academy series), letting go of friends who have long ago let go of me (whether it be distance or life milestones separating us, each lost friendship becomes harder and harder to deal with), and finally, it has been well over a year since the ex-boy and I split and all communication ceased and I still struggle getting through each day without thinking of him. That last example is terrifying and liberating to admit all at the same time. I feel like such a failure that I cannot just "get over it and move on" like so many have suggested I do. And the fact that any attempt at conversation is outright ignored makes each attempt a fresh stab to my heart. And sure the logical thing to do is stop reaching out... and there in lies my dilemma.
Friday, April 18, 2014
Day Sixteen
What are your 5 greatest accomplishments?
1. Number one as to be graduating with my Bachelor's and Master's degrees from UT. It was hard-fought and well-won as I had to endure the major change and all that came with it (school related and otherwise). Switching majors was probably one of the most uncertain times of my life and I am so glad that I didn't hesitate and jumped straight in. I now have a career path that I love and I couldn't be happier!
2. It may be silly, but its on my mind currently so... I feel super accomplished when I can suprise my parents by doing things around the house without their request. While dad went to have surgery today, I cleaned and scrubbed many different areas of the house and felt so accomplished when mom mentioned how wonderful it was when she returned home. Its the little things....
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(Hmm, I don't know about the other three. This post may have to wait until so more milestones in my life occur....)
1. Number one as to be graduating with my Bachelor's and Master's degrees from UT. It was hard-fought and well-won as I had to endure the major change and all that came with it (school related and otherwise). Switching majors was probably one of the most uncertain times of my life and I am so glad that I didn't hesitate and jumped straight in. I now have a career path that I love and I couldn't be happier!
2. It may be silly, but its on my mind currently so... I feel super accomplished when I can suprise my parents by doing things around the house without their request. While dad went to have surgery today, I cleaned and scrubbed many different areas of the house and felt so accomplished when mom mentioned how wonderful it was when she returned home. Its the little things....
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(Hmm, I don't know about the other three. This post may have to wait until so more milestones in my life occur....)
Day Fifteen
If you were an animal, what would you be and why?
If my imminent future of being a Crazy Cat Lady (CCL) has anything influence in my life at all it is this, that if I were an animal I am sure I would be a cat. They are fluffy and adorable and don't take crap from anyone. They are the epitome of indifference, and when you go from extreme emotion to extreme emotion like I do, indifference would be a welcome reprieve. Plus they get to sleep most of the day and never wake up looking completely ridiculous, just more fluffy adorable!
If my imminent future of being a Crazy Cat Lady (CCL) has anything influence in my life at all it is this, that if I were an animal I am sure I would be a cat. They are fluffy and adorable and don't take crap from anyone. They are the epitome of indifference, and when you go from extreme emotion to extreme emotion like I do, indifference would be a welcome reprieve. Plus they get to sleep most of the day and never wake up looking completely ridiculous, just more fluffy adorable!
Day Fourteen
Describe 5 strengths you have.
1. I appreciate the simple things in life. It doesn't take a grand gesture to knock my socks off, though I would be sure to swoon! A heartfelt compliment or some simple flowers and I'd be a puddle. The same can be said of my professional career. I don't need big awards or extra incentives, just genuine appreciation for what I am doing is enough for me.
2. In my opinion anyway, I think humor is one of my strengths. I try to make sure that others around me find joy in spending time with me. Nothing is better than helping someone find laughter through tears.
3. I also believe that I am a good listener. While I do talk frequently, I know when someone needs me to lend them my ear. And I will dispense advice when solicited. I believe I have an aptitude for connecting with people.
4. In building a quick connection with people, I am also empathetic/sympathetic. I do my best to look for the good in people and in doing so it is easy to offer up my reflections on similar experiences or offer my beliefs in connection with a situation I may not have experienced on my own.
5. I have recently be told that I am persistent. While most of the time I suspect others may find this a negative aspect of my personality, I can see the positive in it. I will work to get things done, and will not a little bump in the road deter me from the means to the end of a project!
1. I appreciate the simple things in life. It doesn't take a grand gesture to knock my socks off, though I would be sure to swoon! A heartfelt compliment or some simple flowers and I'd be a puddle. The same can be said of my professional career. I don't need big awards or extra incentives, just genuine appreciation for what I am doing is enough for me.
2. In my opinion anyway, I think humor is one of my strengths. I try to make sure that others around me find joy in spending time with me. Nothing is better than helping someone find laughter through tears.
3. I also believe that I am a good listener. While I do talk frequently, I know when someone needs me to lend them my ear. And I will dispense advice when solicited. I believe I have an aptitude for connecting with people.
4. In building a quick connection with people, I am also empathetic/sympathetic. I do my best to look for the good in people and in doing so it is easy to offer up my reflections on similar experiences or offer my beliefs in connection with a situation I may not have experienced on my own.
5. I have recently be told that I am persistent. While most of the time I suspect others may find this a negative aspect of my personality, I can see the positive in it. I will work to get things done, and will not a little bump in the road deter me from the means to the end of a project!
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